Hello Gorgeous,
A little shamelessly self update, I have not been blogging often lately because I have been dealing with this crazy sore throat of mine.
It's TERRIBLE !!! I have been down-ing cough syrup for 3 days already and it's just keep getting worst & worst.
Plus I was spending time with Yutaki lately, just trying to accompany him before he goes to army.
FML seriously -_- !!!
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Anyway I have been wanting to blog about this blogpost for quite sometime.
There's no recent drama or whatever that leads me to writing this post ( *just a disclaimer* ).
These are just what I observe and I shall take this opportunity to point out what exactly a BOY should do in a relationship :
GIRLS LOOK INTO SMALL DETAILS
*Before I start*
This one all you boys MUST KNOW !!!
Girls look into small detail. It's just something that a girl naturally exhibit and all these small details will be embedded into their brains *forsure* !!!
So no matter what you do/say, remember to FILTER FIRST !!! Think about the POSSIBLE REPURCUSSIONS to your words/actions.
Even if you don't mean it to be serious, girls will have the tendency to take it effing seriously !!!
Plus they will not SAY IT OUT to you ( or confront you about it immediately ).
They will always have the mentality that you're mature enough to sense it yourself.
Wait until they buay tahan already, *BOMB* WORLD WAR TWO !!!
BE HONEST
This one I no need to elaborate much.
Being honest is very important in a relationship.
Especially about your WHEREABOUTS !!!
I know sometimes boys wanna have their own space/time for their ownself/friends/families.
But it's always important to update your whereabouts and be honest about it.
What I meant is ... for example,
If you're going to a Thai disco pubs ( which stereotypically it tense to be more sleazy ), even if you don't have an intention of cheating on your gf, you just wanna accompany your friends for a drink,
JUST TELL YOUR GF THE TRUTH
They won't be angry instead they will be happy that you are being honest and you CARE about their feelings.
Best if you can update them every 30mins on whatsapp, just telling them what you are doing or what time you going home.
In this way, you save yourself the trouble into getting into an unnecessary argument ( which I shall *once again* elaborate that girls WILL NOT SHOW THEY ARE DULAN WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE, so be HONEST boys ).
BE PROUD TO HAVE HER
Girls love it when their boyfriends flaunt them to their friends or *especially* FAMILY MEMBERS.
I mean it's a psychological thing.
In a way, they can assure themselves that the guy they love, love them back in return.
Plus girls will feel appreciated that you feel that they are "presentable" enough to show them to your friends/FAMILIES.
BE SMART
This one also very important.
Like I said, GIRLS don't like to talk about their true feelings.
They rather let you find it out yourself.
They are not being troublesome/ "princess", they just wanna TEST whether you bother/care about them.
ALWAYS LOOK INTO EMOTIONAL CHANGES IN TEXT ( whatsapp, sms etc ) OR IN PERSON ( body language ).
If you're smart enough to catch the hints, the earlier you can prevent from future unnecessary quarrels.
BE SUPER NIAP AND SWEET
Lastly, it's always good to surprise your gf.
Every girls love surprises.
Occasionally, shower them with gifts. Let them know that the "affection" still exist.
Best is do something from your heart ( like a handwritten card etc ).
They like it even more when the boy they love go the extra mile to do something for them.
TIME TO USE YOUR BRAINS BOYS !!!
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Basically, it's very easy to win a girl's heart.
You just have to take note of those few things that I pointed out above.
<3
Signing Off
Eric Lim
A little shamelessly self update, I have not been blogging often lately because I have been dealing with this crazy sore throat of mine.
It's TERRIBLE !!! I have been down-ing cough syrup for 3 days already and it's just keep getting worst & worst.
Plus I was spending time with Yutaki lately, just trying to accompany him before he goes to army.
FML seriously -_- !!!
.
.
.
Anyway I have been wanting to blog about this blogpost for quite sometime.
There's no recent drama or whatever that leads me to writing this post ( *just a disclaimer* ).
These are just what I observe and I shall take this opportunity to point out what exactly a BOY should do in a relationship :
GIRLS LOOK INTO SMALL DETAILS
*Before I start*
This one all you boys MUST KNOW !!!
Girls look into small detail. It's just something that a girl naturally exhibit and all these small details will be embedded into their brains *forsure* !!!
So no matter what you do/say, remember to FILTER FIRST !!! Think about the POSSIBLE REPURCUSSIONS to your words/actions.
Even if you don't mean it to be serious, girls will have the tendency to take it effing seriously !!!
Plus they will not SAY IT OUT to you ( or confront you about it immediately ).
They will always have the mentality that you're mature enough to sense it yourself.
Wait until they buay tahan already, *BOMB* WORLD WAR TWO !!!
BE HONEST
This one I no need to elaborate much.
Being honest is very important in a relationship.
Especially about your WHEREABOUTS !!!
I know sometimes boys wanna have their own space/time for their ownself/friends/families.
But it's always important to update your whereabouts and be honest about it.
What I meant is ... for example,
If you're going to a Thai disco pubs ( which stereotypically it tense to be more sleazy ), even if you don't have an intention of cheating on your gf, you just wanna accompany your friends for a drink,
JUST TELL YOUR GF THE TRUTH
They won't be angry instead they will be happy that you are being honest and you CARE about their feelings.
Best if you can update them every 30mins on whatsapp, just telling them what you are doing or what time you going home.
In this way, you save yourself the trouble into getting into an unnecessary argument ( which I shall *once again* elaborate that girls WILL NOT SHOW THEY ARE DULAN WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE, so be HONEST boys ).
BE PROUD TO HAVE HER
Girls love it when their boyfriends flaunt them to their friends or *especially* FAMILY MEMBERS.
I mean it's a psychological thing.
In a way, they can assure themselves that the guy they love, love them back in return.
Plus girls will feel appreciated that you feel that they are "presentable" enough to show them to your friends/FAMILIES.
BE SMART
This one also very important.
Like I said, GIRLS don't like to talk about their true feelings.
They rather let you find it out yourself.
They are not being troublesome/ "princess", they just wanna TEST whether you bother/care about them.
ALWAYS LOOK INTO EMOTIONAL CHANGES IN TEXT ( whatsapp, sms etc ) OR IN PERSON ( body language ).
If you're smart enough to catch the hints, the earlier you can prevent from future unnecessary quarrels.
BE SUPER NIAP AND SWEET
Lastly, it's always good to surprise your gf.
Every girls love surprises.
Occasionally, shower them with gifts. Let them know that the "affection" still exist.
Best is do something from your heart ( like a handwritten card etc ).
They like it even more when the boy they love go the extra mile to do something for them.
TIME TO USE YOUR BRAINS BOYS !!!
.
.
.
Basically, it's very easy to win a girl's heart.
You just have to take note of those few things that I pointed out above.
<3
Signing Off
Eric Lim
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Hahaha wah 100% spot-on! Im impressed!
ReplyDeleteOmg you're God's gift to women.
ReplyDeleteAnd I really love your writing style! It makes me laugh. (ps just got caught by my mum for smiling like a fool at my phone screen lolol)
One of the best entry I've read so far and I love your writing skills! :D
ReplyDeleteyou are gay
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